Norbert passed away peacefully on November 9th, 2020 in the hands and hearts of his family at the age of 95. He is survived by his wife of 68 years, Germaine (Schroepfer) and children: Mary (David Lussier), John, and Paul (Buffy) along with his grandchildren: Melinda Rae (Bonnie) and Joshua (Kayla). Norbert especially enjoyed looking at pictures and smiling when seeing his great-grandchildren: Elliot Rae and Beckham Stephan.
Norbert was born on February 10th, 1925 in the town of Germantown to Anna (Mueller) and Albert Stephan. He was the youngest of six boys: Lawrence, Henry, John, Louis, and Walter. Norbert is also survived by his sister-in-law, Ethel Stephan, many wonderful nieces and nephews as well as friends and neighbors from the Ruby Lawn neighborhood who cared so much for Germaine and him through the years.
Music was Norbert's life. He received a degree in instrumental music from UWM. Through the many years of teaching band in Catholic schools around the Milwaukee area and the Hamilton School District in Sussex, many children learned to play and appreciate music and be part of a band program.
Norbert enjoyed marching in parades. He wanted children to have the same experiences. He founded and was the director of the Cardinal Cadets Youth Band from 1970-1980 in the Milwaukee/Menomonee Falls area.
Norbert played all the band instruments but his favorites were the clarinet, saxophone and bassoon. He played in many bands throughout the southeastern Wisconsin area. Some included the American Legion Band and the Shrine Band. He enjoyed playing weekend gigs in his own Dixieland and Polka bands as well as with various other dance band groups. The last band that he joined when he was 90 was the Tosa Community and Jazz bands and played with them until age 93.
Gardening was a favorite hobby having grown up on a farm. Norbert and his wife prided themselves in having the biggest garden in the neighborhood. They enjoyed sharing vegetables with their neighbors throughout the years they lived in Wauwatosa.
In lieu of flowers, donations (and even used instruments) can be sent or given to the White House of Music Foundation in Norbert's memory. The Foundation provides refurbished instruments to children in band programs around the Milwaukee and Waukesha area.
A special thanks to the staff at the Arboretum and Vitas hospice as well as St. Camillus during his short stay there.
The family asks that all attending the wake and/or service wear masks and maintain social distancing.
Funeral Mass will be held Tuesday, November 17 at 1 PM at St. Margaret Mary Parish, 3970 N 92nd St, Milwaukee. Visitation from 11:30 AM until the time of Mass. Entombment Pinelawn Memorial Park.
Norbert's Mass can be viewed at:
https://youtu.be/2QkLyXYvmes